I was born into a large family of rural teacher. At an early age, helping his father, he dragged firewood on his shoulders and blew up his spine. Sharp pains began in the chest, especially in the region of the heart. The pains intensified at night, when he went to bed, with deep breathing and with a change in the weather. My father, as a rural teacher and educated person, believed in doctors and showed me to a district specialist. He gave me a severe diagnosis of “Rheumatic heart disease” and categorically warned my father that I need to be protected, limited physical activity, constantly monitor and strictly adhere to the prescribed treatment (medication). This conversation took place in my presence.
The doctor’s words made such a heavy impression on me that I put an end to my youth and waited for the end. However, later I was examined by a cardiologist and heart disease was ruled out. When I became a doctor, I learned that pain in the heart area was associated with a spinal injury and was aggravated by the depression of the roots when I went to bed, the so-called radicular pain.
I can give you another example: my youngest child, at the age of 6 months, when he was bottle-fed, started vomiting blood. None of the specialists involved could determine and establish an accurate diagnosis, prescribe the correct treatment. Then the local doctor with many years of experience prescribed traditional drug therapy. I wanted to figure it out to the end, so as not to harm the baby and turned to other specialists.
The true cause of the disorders was found by a pediatric dentist, it turned out that they were caused by mechanical trauma to the palate from a rough nipple. Such hard, long, and, moreover, not aesthetic brown nipples were sold by pharmacies in Soviet times. As soon as we changed them to imported ones – short, soft, and beautiful, the baby stopped crying and began to eat normally.
I thought, “What if we followed drug therapy and gave the child the drugs that the district pediatrician prescribed ?!”
I am not urging you to abandon drug therapy.
Everything should be individual: there are life circumstances when it is impossible to help a sick child without drug therapy.
Masha was always fed by her mother. The child did not want to eat himself and often protested when the mother tried to force her to eat on her own. Then the mother began to put ready-made food on the table and watched her daughter’s reaction from afar. On the 4th day, the child began to eat independently, without the mother’s help.
Three-year-old Timofey is constantly in the arms of his mother. If his mother refuses to take him in her arms, he falls and cries. After contacting us and examining us, we did not reveal any pathology and it was recommended that the mother not pay attention to his whims. When the child once again began to ask for his mother’s arms, she refused him. “He fell to the floor and screamed.” The mother did not pay attention to his cry and walked away from him. Then the child got up and followed his mother himself. So the child learned to walk on his own, and we freed mom from stress. And there are many such examples.
In these examples, refusal to feed, pick up, additional assistance in the development of fine and gross motor skills of the child is visible. I emphasize that all these actions were approved by me and were carried out under my control. the child had no physical disorders of the musculoskeletal system of organic origin. This is all individual.
If you have found a good specialist and you see positive changes in the development of the child after the treatment he has carried out, share with other parents your experience of communicating with this specialist. If necessary, ask about the level of qualifications of other specialists, the availability of a certificate, license, scientific titles, publications, and others, as well as his authority among his patients, colleagues, and others. Remember that a real doctor will never criticize or show negative attitudes towards colleagues. If it is, then you see envy and this should alert you.
All these recommendations relate to relatively healthy, somatically and neurologically, children.
For children with severe somatic and neurological pathologies, these recommendations may be slightly modified.
Always remember the truth: “Trust in God, but do not make a mistake yourself.”
According to our long-term observations, after the completion of treatment, the improvement process continues at home. After finishing therapy with us, do not stop working with children at home. Their brains must be in a constant targeted therapeutic load 24 hours a day. Load them with useful “work”, let the children express themselves in creativity, etc. You must exclude the influence of psycho- trauma, scandals, and other negative situations on children.
I repeat, do not expect a miracle, a miracle will come unnoticed, but this is hellish work.
If the parents of patients at home stop fulfilling our requirements and do not work with the child, constant conflicts, socially disadvantaged factors, and others continue in the family, then the children may experience exacerbations, the results of treatment may decrease. But, upon careful observation, it can still be noted that positive shifts remain.
For those parents who doubt the effectiveness of the treatment and at the same time they are constantly tormented by “remorse” and obsessive thoughts about their duty to the child, we individually conduct a short cycle of therapy, lasting 10 days. At the end of 10 days, the parents decide for themselves whether to continue the treatment in the future. And “remorse” and obsessive thoughts about the duty to the child disappear from the soul, like a heavy burden.
For some children with hyperactive behavior, the course of therapy should be selected individually, while the process of adaptation to treatment may occur no earlier than 2-3 cycles. In such cases, treatment must be continued.
Child Maxim. His mother suffered from neurotic and somatoform disorders. The child and mother received therapy and experienced significant improvement. After the end of the treatment, the mother had a conflict and other negative phenomena at work. She could not follow the doctor’s recommendations and the child again had an exacerbation. However, with a careful history, it was revealed that the child stopped urinary incontinence (enuresis) , circadian eating habits and meteorological dependence disappeared.
Child Andrey. Extreme hyperactivity and keeps up with mom, symbiosis with mother. Overprotection on the part of parents and grandparents. In the third cycle, it was possible to adopt the child to independent communication with other children, including in the macro-environment. However, in the future, we stopped treatment due to parents’ failure to meet our requirements. Parents, before coming to us for treatment, take these factors into account, think about your capabilities and family potential.
Dear parents and patients!
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